RHOP Star Ashley Darby Confirms Relationship Status with Josh Gudenburr

Real Housewives of Potomac star Ashley Darby has given an update on her romantic life following her divorce. During the New York City premiere of The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip: Roaring 20s, Darby confirmed that she is still dating Josh Gudenburr, whom she met at a speed-dating event on RHOP Season 9.

"I am still with Josh," Darby said. "We are figuring out as we go. We are actually having a very big discussion in a month." She laughed when asked if she was ready for that discussion.

Darby previously spoke about Gudenburr on the January 12, 2025, episode of Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen. At the time, she described him as a "good guy" and mentioned enjoying his company, but noted that they hadn't put a label on their relationship.

Their casual dating arrangement appeared to have progressed since then, although details remain unclear. By the RHOP Season 9 finale, Ashley and Josh had reportedly been casually dating.

Before her current romance status with Gudenburr, Darby was married to Australian restaurateur Michael Darby from May 2014 until their divorce was finalized early this year. They share two children, Dean and Dylan, who are both under age six.

When questioned about their compatibility, Darby acknowledged that they're currently at "very different stages." how long this relationship will continue.